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Ruling Your Inner Kingdom
Harnessing Anger and Desire
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Desires make slaves out of kings
and
Patience makes kings out of slaves.
Imagine approaching a grand and noble king known for his wisdom and leadership.
But instead of finding him engaged in the affairs of his kingdom, you witness him bowing down to a ravenous dog or a wild horse.
Instantly, your respect for him crumbles.
The king, meant to rule with dignity and intelligence, has lowered himself to a disgrace, worshipping creatures far beneath him.
In this analogy from Imam Ghazali, the king represents our reasoning—the faculty that distinguishes us from animals and elevates us as the best of creation.
The ravenous dog symbolizes our anger, always on the verge of lashing out, while the wild horse represents our desires, powerful and untamed, always racing towards immediate gratification.
When our reasoning, the very essence of our humanity, bows to our unchecked anger or uncontrolled desires, we degrade ourselves, losing the honor and dignity bestowed upon us by Allah.
We become like the king who dishonors his throne by serving creatures that should be under his command.
Just as a wise king uses his resources to strengthen his kingdom, so must we use our anger and desires as tools, not masters.
A well-trained dog can protect its owner and ward off threats, while a disciplined horse can be a powerful ally in travel and battle.
Similarly, when controlled, our anger can be a force for justice, driving us to defend the oppressed and uphold the truth.
When harnessed, our desires can motivate us to achieve and fulfill our needs lawfully and productively.
The key is to let our reasoning govern our actions, directing our anger and desires toward what is beneficial and just.
This means recognizing that while anger and desire have their place, they should never dominate our actions or decisions.
This also means using our anger to curb our desires and our desires to control our anger.
For example, when faced with temptation, we can channel our anger towards the thought of succumbing to sin, letting that righteous indignation prevent us from indulging in wrongful behavior.
Conversely, when our anger flares unnecessarily, our understanding of its potential to cause harm and interfere with our overall goals should temper it, allowing us to respond with patience and wisdom.
The true art of living lies in achieving this balance—knowing when to harness the dog’s energy and when to rein in the horse’s impulses.
When we allow our desires to dominate, we fall into greed, lust, and indulgence.
We become harsh, vengeful, and unjust when anger takes the lead.
Unchecked anger and desire lead to most spiritual diseases, including envy, arrogance, and resentment.
However, we ascend spiritually when we rise above these base impulses, using reason as the guiding force.
We become noble, not because we have no anger or desire, but because we have mastered them, using them to serve our higher purpose.
This mastery brings about a state of inner peace and fulfillment, where we are no longer slaves to our impulses but rulers of our inner kingdom, aligned with the will of Allah.
In controlling our anger and desires through logic and forbearance, we protect ourselves from spiritual decay and elevate our souls, drawing closer to the nobility Allah intended for us.
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Reflection:
What strategies can I implement to balance my desires and anger, ensuring they serve rather than control me?
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Day 332
🇵🇸 48 killed, 70 injured in Gaza in 24 hours despite vaccine ‘pauses’
🇬🇧 UK suspends 30/350 Israeli arms export licences incl. for military aircraft components but not F-35 jets
🪧 Unprecedented ~800,000 Israelis rallied y’day + general strike today for hostage swap after 6 captives retrieved dead. Most incl. hostages’ families accept genocide resumption after swap
Gaza:
🇵🇸 North: 5+ killed in air strike in Jabalia. 3 killed in Gaza City. 2 killed in attack on Zeitoun. Bombing of family home kills 2 in Hamada
🇵🇸 Central: 2 killed incl. child in Nuseirat
West Bank:
🇵🇸 Death toll rises to 29 in ongoing invasion on West Bank. 1 killed in a shooting in Qabatiya. Ayman Abed, 58, killed in Kafr Dan. Tulkarem’s water lines shut down after continuous IOF raids
🔻 Resistance fighters ambush IOF military vehicles, killing 1 soldier & many casualties
🇵🇸 Israel refuses to return bodies of 7 Palestinian hostages, incl. Walid Daqqa, to use them as bargaining chip in ceasefire talks
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