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Marriage is about treasuring, uplifting, and connecting with one another

Women often seek to feel cherished and reassured.

They don’t take love for granted.

Unlike men, who may feel secure knowing their wives are by their side, many women need to hear and see their husbands’ affection regularly.

A woman may ask herself, Does he still love me?

Am I still his priority? 

To answer these questions, husbands must intentionally communicate their love and appreciation.

Practical Ways to Show Love

As a husband, making your wife feel cherished is a Sunnah, a beautiful way to emulate the example of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ.

1. Words of Affirmation: Never underestimate the power of saying “I love you.” Praise her efforts, whether cooking, working, or caring for the family.

   Tell her she looks beautiful when she dresses up or even on a lazy Sunday at home. Small words of acknowledgment can go a long way.

2. Remember Special Occasions: Celebrating anniversaries and meaningful dates is not just cultural but an encouraging way to strengthen marital bonds. Remembering and honoring these moments shows that you value your journey together.

3. Quality Time, Not Just Time: For men, “time” might mean hours spent together. For women, it’s about the quality of attention. Set aside distractions and spend undivided time with her—whether during dinner, a walk, or simply a meaningful conversation.

Addressing the Unique Needs of Women

Women are often self-conscious about their appearance, especially after changes like childbirth or aging.

Husbands, reassure your wives that they are still beautiful and admired.

A few kind words can dispel self-doubt and strengthen her confidence.

Additionally, showing gratitude for her contributions—no matter how routine they may seem to you— makes her feel appreciated.

“MashAllah, this meal is amazing.” or “I see how hard you work for our family. Thank you.” can make her feel valued beyond measure.

Building the Bond of Love

Marriage thrives when both partners make each other feel valued.

It’s about consistent, heartfelt efforts—expressing love, showing care, and remembering the little details.

When a husband prioritizes his wife, making her feel like his number one, she will naturally reciprocate.

A successful marriage is a partnership where both give their best, lifting each other up and striving for harmony and happiness.