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Many of us wonder at some point, “Is there a special prayer or practice I can do to ensure I get what I want?”

It’s a question that spans all ages as we all seek an easy path to success, happiness, or fulfilling our dreams.

But is there a “cheat code” in life that guarantees we’ll get what we desire if we just say the proper prayer or follow a specific practice?

While straightforward, this question taps into something much more profound. It reflects how we view life, our relationship with Allah, and our understanding of success. .

The Uniqueness of Our Paths

One of our most significant challenges today is the temptation to compare ourselves with others.

We often see someone achieving success effortlessly—or so it seems.

But the truth is, we can only assume their level of effort or the internal struggles they face.

We never truly know what people are going through behind the scenes or what hidden challenges they may be battling.

Outward success can be deceptive.

Judging by appearances alone not only misguides us but also reinforces a scarcity mindset—the belief that life’s blessings are limited and that someone else’s success somehow reduces our chances for success.

This comparison is a trap. It exhausts us and distorts our understanding of Allah’s boundless mercy.

Each path is unique, designed by Allah with different strengths, challenges, and opportunities.

No two lives follow the same pattern, and trying to mirror someone else’s journey only leads to frustration.

When we adopt a scarcity mindset, our focus shifts away from our potential and becomes fixated on what others have.

This constant comparison puts our minds and bodies under stress, increasing cortisol levels.

It leaves us fatigued, less productive, and less capable of growing into the people Allah intended us to be.

It robs us of peace and distracts us from nurturing our own unique gifts.

The Power of an Abundance Mindset

Contrast this with an abundance mentality—the belief that Allah’s provision is limitless and that His blessings are already written for us.

An abundance mindset is not just about feeling content; it’s about recognizing that Allah’s mercy and bounty are not restricted.

What is destined for us will never miss us, and what isn’t meant for us will never be ours, no matter how much effort we exert.

As we internalize this mindset, it profoundly transforms us and empowers us.

Over time, this mentality highlights the areas where we are truly gifted, helping us recognize the unique qualities and abilities Allah has already placed within us.

We stop focusing on what others have and begin seeing how richly blessed our lives are.

We understand that every challenge and every success is designed for our growth and benefit.

Most importantly, this mindset fills our hearts with gratitude.

Living with an abundance mentality brings clarity and focus, allowing us to nurture our gifts with intention and serve a higher purpose with deep contentment.

When we stop competing with others and focus on our unique path, we recognize that the blessings Allah has placed in our lives and the ability to connect with Him through our gifts are truly priceless.

Blessing or Test: The Hidden Wisdom

We often think we know what’s good for us.

We believe that wealth, beauty, or success are clear signs of blessings.

But are they always?

Allah reminds us that what we perceive as a blessing might be a test, and what seems like a hardship could be filled with hidden benefits.

Consider the story of Prophet Yusuf (AS).

His beauty was a blessing many people covet, yet it led him to imprisonment.

That same beauty did not save him or ease his hardship in those years.

Instead, his integrity, kindness, and unique ability to interpret dreams eventually freed him and elevated him to one of the highest positions in the kingdom.

This teaches us that what we often perceive as our greatest asset may not be the key to success.

Many times, it is when we look deep within—when we recognize and nurture the full range of our unique gifts, talents, and perspectives—that we truly unlock the blessings that Allah has placed in our lives.

Through this inner growth and self-awareness, we come to appreciate and fully embrace the path meant for us.